JUST SAYING

Hello, time to update this empty space of mine. Since i'm taking a break from school tomorrow, i can afford to sacrifice an hour less of sleep to blog <:

I think today's post is gonna be interesting. Instead of the usual routine posts, its gonna be about all my point of view. Let me re-specify, it's my point of view. It doesn't matter if you don't agree because everyone have different points of view, it's called mutual respect and mutual understanding to not make a big fuss out of it alrights! ;) PEACE (Y)



okay, first thing i'm gonna talk about is the impression you portray yourself as for others to see. It's normal for girls to want attention from guys. Even if you're that shy little girl, you gotta admit if you have a crush, you would wish that he noticed you more. Unless you don't have a crush, then that's an exception :) And when this attention is wanted, stupid things start to happen and are done! Naturally, the more popular you are, the more haters you have. Most are envious of what you have and they do not, but are never gonna admit it. Also, being popular has many ways. two of the most prominent ones are influencing others to strive to be as great as you, and popular because of physical features; looks, beauty. Personally, i strongly believe looks are NOT EVERYTHING. Yes, admittedly, the first thing guys ever look at guys would probably be looks. But guys, what's more precious than a good nature? And girls, you're never inferior in any way. You see, the attention that we seek for, has resulted us in doing things that are really stupid. You may not admit it but yes we do, unconsciously and subconsciously. Such things include rantings on twitter, facebook to seek attention. Who are your audience? It may be everyone that's following you, or maybe indirectly passing a message to your crush. And, every impression counts. Every action that you take counts. You are speaking, you are typing, you are acting, people see people judge. This is a judgemental society. Please don't tell me you don't judge. Cause i'll call you a saint. There's two actions that can be carried out after judging. 1) Creating a personal impression of that person, to you only. 2) Criticizing that person down in everything they do, just because of one judgement that you make, that may be false too. I mean, look. Personally, i believe no one has the rights to scold another person down. Its called human rights. No matter how horrible that person's attitude is, he's still human. He has feelings. And it's this negative feedback that he received from the people around him, that caused him to have a more worse attitude. Come on, you didn't even give him a chance to change and you pinned him down dead.


Here, i am moving from random topics to topics, no idea where i'm typing but just stating my thoughts.


Friendship.
Just like love, friendship is another big word. You have friends whom you can go shopping with, go totally yourself with, share all the secrets with, hang out of of the time. They're all different people. You may always hang out with Girl A but you may not share any secrets with her. So, i'm just gonna talk about something that i've experienced recently. It'll just be a general touch-and-go and not gonna reveal who it is. Okay so, being your best friend's best friend, let's just name your best friend A. Being A'a best friend, A may not be your best friend. Get it? Also, best friends don't share allllll the secrets. Secrets are not meant to be shared in the first place. But now, i'm being resented for not telling A a secret beforehand. Again, we're dealing with point of views. No one's right or wrong. A's point of view is i treat you as my best friend, how could you not tell me. But my point of view is, it's my secret. Since you're my best friend, you ought to respect my choice and not force me to tell it to you. Sometimes, I do find it unreasonable and I think I am right. Yes, that's the problem with humans. Most of the time, we like to be the one who's right. But after thinking, this topic can never have a right or wrong answer. Because our priority, values, point of view, are all different. I am judging you to be immature, yet i correct myself as i feel i have no rights to say you down. Because maturity cannot be measured. It is the level of thinking of the brain. It's hard to conclude who's more mature. Nevertheless, if this friendship is worth fighting for, it should definitely worth more than your pride.

Lastly, i would like to talk about juniors i meet in school. This is not gossiping but perhaps its due to generation evolution. I don't remember us being so cocky when we were in Sec one. Seriously, pampered kids with all the wrong values and priorities. You think you're great? Please know your limits. I would really get pissed if I continue more, i shall stop here :)

执着的我是不可能会放弃这个爱情。我会固执地把你留在我身边，当你不确定这个爱时，我还是会在里爱着你。

就算脆弱也不能哭，就算没有安全感也不能哭，就算心碎了也不能哭，在痛苦；都要坚强下去。